Celebrating 10 Years of Bridge Books

 From left to right: Gary Lee, Margaret Robertson, John Robertson and Mary Lee at the 10th anniversary party

From left to right: Gary Lee, Margaret Robertson, John Robertson and Mary Lee at the 10th anniversary party

Over 60 people attended the shop's 10th anniversary party including John & Margaret Robertson who opened Bridge Books in June 2008. It was a great encouragement to us all, with food and conversation before heading over to the shop for a time of prayer.

Here is an email we received after the event: 
      "It was such a privilege to be part of your anniversary tea party and to hear about the shop’s back story. Thank you for the invitation and for ensuring a lovely welcoming atmosphere. We really appreciated being there, chatting to others and understanding a little more of your ministry."

We are continuing the celebrations by offering our customers a beautiful gift book every day in July as a special thank you. Also, for any church group or school who buy ten items, we will be giving another one for free (valid until 30th August 2018). Please come and visit - it's always a joy to see you!

To find out more about what's been happening at Bridge Books, please do read our latest newsletter by clicking here.

The Diary of a (Trying to Be Holy) Mum by Fiona Lloyd - Book Review

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Reviewed by Ruth Clemence 

Written in the format of a diary, Fiona Lloyd’s ‘The Diary of a (Trying to be holy) Mum’ records the thoughts of mother Becky Hudson as she navigates through the struggles and joys of being a parent and a Christian. It’s a wonderful story of how God meets her where she’s at as she learns to trust in Him with her fears, faith and family.

She is a mother of three children – Jennifer (age 9), Adam (age 5) and Ellie (age 2) and wife to Dave who tells the best dad jokes. Although it is a fictional book, there is so much truth in it! I love how Becky prays honestly to God and wrestles with comparing herself to other mums and their children as well as other Christians. I found myself thinking that I wanted to meet Becky because she ‘gets’ it!

I felt part of Becky’s life as she went about her daily tasks of getting the groceries, never getting completely on top of the chores, heading to church and different groups, meeting with a variety of relatable characters throughout, dealing with family politics and trying to follow God in all of it. I love how honest this book is in addressing issues such as sharing faith, getting time with God and balancing all of the responsibilities that come with being a wife and mum.

This book had me laughing out loud throughout; Fiona writes as one who knows the realities of motherhood and captures the truth that many (if not all) Christians face in their daily lives. Her writing captures the reality of life in a beautifully crafted story of a normal family going through the highs and lows that we can all understand. I thoroughly recommend this book to mums, grandparents and generally anyone who needs that reassurance and understanding of ‘me too’ in their faith and family. It’s a fantastic book – go and buy a copy now!

Fiona Lloyd is vice-chair of the Association of Christian Writers and is married with three grown-up children. Her first novel, The Diary of a (trying to be holy) Mum, was published by Instant Apostle in January 2018. Fiona has also written for Woman Alive, Christian Writer and Together Magazine. She has a passion to encourage others to grow in relationship with God, and to understand that they are loved and accepted. Fiona works part-time as a music teacher and is a member of the worship-leading team at her local church.

An interview with 'Freed From Shame' author Dawn Holmes

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We are looking forward to having 'Freed From Shame' authors Dawn Holmes and Karen Todd speak at Riverside Church (next to Bridge Books) on Saturday 16th June from 10:30am-12pm. We had the privilege to catch up with Dawn for a special interview - we hope this will be a nice introduction to whet your appetites before the main event! 

Tell us a little about how you came to write the book.

I started writing the book after having some mental health issues myself, within my family and friends, and general conversations about what the church is doing to support people. I realised that some people were feeling quite disillusioned with the church’s response, so I began to look into it a bit more. About 18 months ago I set up an online survey just to see if the responses were the same as my friends and family. We had 175 surveys back that were anonymous and the majority were saying again that they were quite disillusioned and they didn’t feel supported, they didn’t know how to ask for support. Not everyone was blaming the church, but there seemed to be a lack of knowing what to do on both sides. Out of that online survey I started writing the book. 

How did you come to work with co-author Karen Todd?

I got so far with the book and I started realising I needed to find out how to publish it. So I just prayed ‘God, you’re going to have to sort this'. That weekend I went to a conference and there was a lady on a stall who had self-published her book and I asked her how she went about this. And she said ‘haven’t you seen the stall next to me?’ On the next stall was Karen and her husband with a big sign on the table saying ‘Do you need help publishing your book?’ And that was that! I talked to her and she was very excited – she had been looking into mental health and the church’s response for a little while as well so we met up after that. 

'Freed from shame' - why this title?

Right at the beginning I had the word ‘shame’ in my head and I didn’t know how to put that because I didn’t want the book to look like we should be shamed if we’re suffering with a mental illness. I decided to stick with the word ‘shame’ but to change it to ‘freed from shame’.

There's a story about the front and back cover isn't there?

We played around with a few front covers and I always had a picture of a person with their head in their hands, that they were feeling shamed, but again I felt that wasn’t right to get across the purpose of the book. Actually it’s OK not to be OK and it’s OK to be in a church and not be OK. So the front cover of the book represents everybody as just the same; you couldn’t pick out who out of those people has a mental illness. On the back of the book we’ve greyed out some of the people - almost 1 in 4 of those people on the back cover are greyed out and that’s how they feel. People who are struggling with mental illness can feel like they’re either invisible, or they stand out too much, or that they’re ignored, or that they are making too much of a fuss, that they’re attention seeking. The front cover was the end product – they are freed from their shame because we’re supporting people and making them feel OK and it’s OK to struggle.

Tell us a bit more about the research that you carried out.

The research seemed to go really well. I obviously didn’t know whether I’d get just one or two replies or whether I’d get loads. There were 175 responses which was great because there seemed to be a wide selection of male and females, different ages, from different types of churches. The one thing that I regretted was that I couldn’t ever go back to them because it was anonymous. I might have had some questions to follow through but I couldn’t because I didn’t know them. That’s the nature of an anonymous survey! At the end of it I put if you want to share with me any further, please get in touch. That’s where the stories in the middle [of the book] came from – people shared further. It was just such a privilege to talk to people and they’re bearing their very souls. They may never have told anybody else ever how they really felt. To start with it felt a bit of a struggle – do I want to put myself in this position to hear these heart-wrenching stories - but actually it was a privilege. I made some friends through it as well.

Did anything surprise you or stand out about the research of the stories?

I’d never really thought about how people felt when they were suicidal. That was my biggest learning curve. I’d never understood how people could get to that drastic point and why they felt like that. Actually talking to people who had suicidal thoughts and were still perhaps feeling that way or had gone through that and [were] able to share with me their journey through that was quite revealing. It doesn’t help people to keep quiet – it helps people to give them a chance to talk about how they’re feeling. That’s what prevents a lot of the successful suicides is someone’s bothered to talk to them about it and listen to how they're feeling. Just the action of talking can make someone change their mind.

What advice would you give to someone struggling with their mental health?

Talk to somebody. You can have that fear of the stigma and the shame that will then stop you speaking out because you don’t know how someone is going to react and you’re unsure - perhaps if you’re a Christian, if your church is going to accept you with it. By doing it both ways – by them talking and then by the church or individuals listening and showing some understanding, that’s huge for somebody. It might not change their mental state but to have someone bother to listen to them is a big deal. It works both ways. The person has to be prepared to talk and share and the people listening and supporting have to be prepared to ask questions and listen.

What advice would you give to someone looking out for someone with mental illness?

Open the conversation. It doesn’t hurt to come alongside someone and ask what it’s really like – 'I don’t understand but tell me what it’s like for you'. They may never have had anybody allow them to speak in that way and that’s freeing for them as well.

What advice would you give the church? 

Open up that conversation. From the front talk about it’s OK to not be OK or anybody from the front sharing their struggles – it immediately puts people at ease that actually ‘I don’t need to put on a mask and come to church' or 'I don’t need to stay away from church until I’m better’ which is how some people feel. Just open up conversations whether that’s from the sermon at the front, during prayer times, Individual people in the congregation – just don’t be afraid to talk about it. And practically, the welcome team – that first person that person meets when they come through the door is going to make a huge difference if they’re welcomed and comforted and they’re told ‘don’t worry if you have to leave part the way through, that’s OK’ and ‘don’t worry if you want to sit at the back if you feel unsure’ and ‘don’t worry if you need to go out to a side room because you’re too overwhelmed’. Those practical things make a huge difference.

Interviewed and written by Ruth Clemence

To book onto the event to hear more about 'Freed From Shame' and meet Dawn and Karen, call in or phone Bridge Books on 01392 427171

There is a small charge of £6 per person to cover the costs and refreshments. Plus, the opportunity to buy the book for £7.50 instead of £8.99.

Do tell others about this event and we hope to see you there! 

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Why Bible Journal by Paula Ponton

The benefits of Bible Journalling were outlined at a recent workshop organised by Bridge Books:

  • Engaging creatively with a particular word or verse of Scripture helps to fix it in your mind. 
  • Looking back over a Bible filled with dated, illustrated or annotated passages can give real encouragement to your devotional life.
  • A dedicated Bible or journal gives you the freedom to experiment with Scripture; whether you draw stick figures, trace an image, use stickers or glue images cut from magazines in the margins - it’s your own personal expression of time spent with God’s Word. 

Why not start the New Year with a One Year Creative Expressions Bible which helps you read through the Bible in 12 months? It includes line art to colour and lightly ruled margins that give space for developing imaginative ideas. Dip your toe in the water by starting with the book of Psalms using a wide margined Psalter or a devotional including images to colour. 

The range of Bible translations and journalling/colouring formats is expanding all the time and a greater variety of journalling resources are now being stocked: washi tape, stickers, waterproof pens, “how to” books, large or small journals with and without bible verses…

Plus, there is the possibility of more workshops to come - why not add your name to the growing list of those to be notified?

Why Read The Bible? by Ruth Clemence

Why Read The Bible?

       The Bible is more accessible than ever before here in the UK. You can now get different translations to help you engage and understand it. It has been translated into many different languages. There are Bibles that can be coloured in or used for journaling; many have pictures or provide additional study notes to give you a deeper appreciation and knowledge of what has been written. Many people own more than one or use an app on a smartphone which skips to the exact book, chapter and verse that is needed. However, there is something pretty amazing about flipping through a hardcopy of this incredible text. Here are just three remarkable reasons to read the Bible – there are many more!

Three reasons to read the Bible

1)         It points to Jesus - it’s God’s Word to us. When we spend time reflecting on what has been written in its pages, it deepens our relationship with God and we can know Him better. Also, from the beginning in the book of Genesis to the final book of Revelation, there is an overarching narrative that runs throughout the Bible – it all points to Jesus Christ. If we are only looking for Jesus in the New Testament, we are missing the richness and excitement that unfolds right from the start.

2)         It’s not about us - the Bible teaches us how to live and how to obey and trust in God. With the uncertainty that life often throws our way, we can know God’s heart for our lives. It deals with some of life’s toughest questions like suffering, life’s purpose, death and life after death. It’s not a book about us – it’s about the Living God. It’s where we can know God and see His love for us. As we read the Bible, it has the power to transform us.

3)        Don’t take it for granted - in many parts of the world accessing a Bible is extremely difficult. Owning a bible could result in persecution, imprisonment and even death, yet many risk their lives for it. We are free to buy, open, read and share the Word of God in this country and so let’s not take it for granted.

     At Bridge Books, we are passionate about the Bible and have a variety of different translations available in store. We would love to encourage you to engage with the Bible; maybe you own one somewhere, but it’s a bit dusty. Perhaps you have worn out your existing copy and it’s time for a new one. It might even be the first time you have considered reading or buying a Bible for yourself or maybe you would like to buy one for someone else.

      Whatever your situation, we would love to help you know what Bibles are available to you. Please feel free to give us a call on: 01392 427171 or email sales@bridgebookshop.co.uk or pop into the shop and we can show you our full selection or order it in for you.

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